體檢

今日到民生去體檢, 是公司排定的. 照X光時巧遇明進, 哇咧, 連台南的也跑來這邊體檢, 沒辦法, 公司是用招標辦理的. 好多年未見面了, 當年在板橋有緣相聚, 不過兩三年耳, 同期弟兄就各奔東西了, 久沒聯絡就大概永遠不會再見面. 等年紀大了回憶起來, 想連絡也無從連絡起, 大概電話都改了. 人生滄桑指的就是這樣.為防無聊,

帶了好久沒看的 Readers's Digest, 果然超音波就等了好久. 我就隨便翻翻, 其中影星 Witherspoon 回憶其童年教養的文章發人深省, 節錄如下 :

Don't humiliate children in front of theirs peers. 別在孩子的朋友面前讓她沒面子

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The girl's mother said : "Will you excuse me for a moment?"

Later I asked, "What happened?"

She said, "I don't like somethine that Phoebe had done, but I don't like to humiliate her in front of Ava."

I thought that was so thoughtful-to be respectful of a little girl's feelings.

這講的真好, 我們的社會一直學不會尊重他人, 原來就是從家庭教育一開始, 我們做父母的就沒尊重孩子的感覺.